Gloria Cohen's Heart Health Spotlight: I Can't Believe We Didn't Help Her

Reveille Camper: Gloria Cohen from New York

Camper In: 2009 - 2012

Gloria's Story: 

Gloria Cohen is a Reveille camper and she is also the mother of Elise Silvestri, who many of you have gotten the pleasure of meeting at camp over the years. Through Elise's years of work with Camp Reveille and Joan Lunden, Gloria has heard the heart health pitch many times and felt that she was well aware of the signs of a heart attack. Yet when faced with the reality of seeing a friend experiencing the symptoms of a heart attack, to her surprise she didn't react - and neither did anyone else in the room. 

Gloria is part of a theatre group that meets regularly, it is made up of well-educated, savvy women. When Gloria recounted this story to me, she was utterly shocked and dismayed that this happened right in front of their eyes. Here is Gloria's story:

One day we all got together to rehearse an upcoming play, when Addy, the star of the show (who is always ready for her close-up) suddenly laid down on the stage. She told us that she was nauseous and that we should go ahead and rehearse without her. We all stopped and expressed our concern but she assured us that she was fine and no one needed to call anyone. So we continued rehearsing and Addy took a seat in the audience. At one point someone took her to the ladies room where she began to retch and broke out into a drenching sweat. We all whispered about taking her to a hospital but she said that she was not in any pain. An hour went by and the rehearsal was over and Addy relented that she felt bad enough that she would let someone drive her car home. I followed them to Addy's house and was planning to go in with her but she said,"no need, go home."

However when Addy got into her house and still did not feel well, she decided to look on the internet for the symptoms of a heart attack. That's when she realized that indeed she may well be experiencing the symptoms of a heart attack. When we all heard the next day that Addy had been having a heart attack right in front of our eyes, and that we all went on with play rehearsal, I think we were all stunned. How could that have happened?

When we heard this story, we couldn't help but wonder if we would have done anything differently. Here we are, preaching about heart health and trying to educate women about the symptoms of a heart attack, yet this scenario could truly happen to any of us. Hopefully after reading Gloria's story you might feel a bit more prepared if you ever found yourself in a position like Gloria did. We can be more alert, more cautious, and prepared to take action when needed. When Gloria's friend Addy said she needed to go home to make dinner for her husband, everyone just went along with it. That's where we, as women, have to change. Just because our symptoms might appear subtle, unlike men who normally experience a crushing pain in the chest, we always need to be cautious.

Here are the warning signs of a heart attack from the American Heart Association: 

• Chest discomfort that lasts more than a few minutes or that goes away and comes back. It can feel like uncomfortable pressure, squeezing, fullness or pain.  
• Discomfort in other areas of the upper body – symptoms can include pain or discomfort in one or both arms, the back, neck, jaw or stomach 
• Shortness of breath, with or without chest discomfort. 
• May include breaking out inn a cold sweat, nausea or lightheadedness 

Source: heart.org